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From Stress to Serenity: How Breath Can Change Your Life!

Lola Brooks Season 1 Episode 6

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Stress doesn't have to control your life. By understanding the physiological responses to stress and implementing simple breathing techniques, we can cultivate calmness and resilience in our daily lives.

In This Episode
• Examining how stress affects our body and mind 
• Exploring the role of the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous systems 
• Introducing diaphragmatic breathing for stress management 
• Outlining steps for effective breathing practice 
• Discussing the importance of routine and habit in relaxation 
• Real-life applications of deep breathing techniques 
• Rewiring our stress responses through mindfulness 

Remember, your stress doesn't have to run the show. Every deep breath is a step toward a calmer, brighter you. By adopting just one moment of pause and reflection each day, you can start to shift the balance of power from stress to serenity. 

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Thank you. We all know that stress, ugh, that heavy, nagging kind of feeling grabs you in the moment and doesn't let go right. But what's really going on inside your body when stress strikes? That's the part we rarely think about. But understanding it can actually make a world of difference. So picture this You've got a big deadline coming up, or maybe you're stuck in traffic and running late. Your body, without you even realizing it, starts to breathe faster, shallow breaths that barely get into your lungs. It's like you're almost holding your breath right. This pattern is called hyperventilation and, according to clinical neuropsychologist Dr Christopher Rhodes, it messes with how much oxygen you're taking in. And when your brain isn't getting enough oxygen, well, let's just say, mental clarity isn't exactly at its peak.

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All of this, by the way, has a lot to do with what's called the sympathetic nervous system. It's the part of your autonomic nervous system that's in charge of the fight-or-flight response. You know that jolt you feel when something startles you. Yep, that's your sympathetic nervous system kicking into high gear. Your heart races, adrenaline floods your body. It's like your internal alarm system saying Danger, let's get you ready to either fight this thing off or run like crazy. But here's the thing Life's not always about escaping saber-toothed tigers anymore. Sometimes the alarm goes off for things that aren't actually life-threatening, like a packed inbox or someone cutting you off on the freeway, and your body doesn't know the difference. It's still like, okay, we're in a crisis, so you're stuck in this constant state of agitation. So you're stuck in this constant state of agitation and that wears you down. And here's the good news, because we all need some good news, don't we? The body has a built-in counterbalance to the fight-or-flight response. It's called the parasympathetic nervous system and it's all about that. Rest and relax, vibe. This magical little system can slow your heart rate, regulate your breathing and send those hey, everything's cool signals to your body again. And guess what activates it? Deep, purposeful breathing. When you inhale deeply and let your lungs fully expand, your brain is like, ah, oxygen overload. The parasympathetic system takes over, calming you down and bringing some balance back to your body. It's kind of fascinating when you think about it. Just taking a moment to breathe differently literally can completely shift how your whole system is operating. Breathe the right way and you're not just surviving, you're thriving. All right, let's dig right in.

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Diaphragmatic breathing Sounds kind of technical, right, but trust me, it's one of the simplest things you can do and it's genuinely life-changing. So first step find yourself a comfortable spot. Could be your couch, your bed or even a quiet corner at work. Now sit or lie down and just relax. Shake out those shoulders a little. This isn't a workout. It's all about letting go of tension.

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Next, place one hand. Your dominant hand works best on your diaphragm, that's the area right below your ribcage. Place one hand your dominant hand works best on your diaphragm, that's the area right below your ribcage. The other hand just rest it on your chest. This way you can feel what's moving as you breathe.

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Now here comes the fun part, or at least I think it's kind of fun. Breathe in slowly through your nose I mean slooowly, like you're I don't know smelling the world's best slice of pizza or something. As you do that, the goal is to feel your belly rise, not your chest. Belly. Breathing is where the magic happens. Counting can help too. Try counting to, let's say, five as you inhale, but it's not a race. If five feels like it's just too much for now, no worries. Start smaller, you'll get there, I promise. Once you've filled up with air, exhale through your mouth this time. Exhale Through your mouth. This time Think of blowing out birthday candles, but slower, way slower. You want to feel everything easing out while your chest gently falls. It's like releasing all that pent-up tension in a single deliberate moment. And you just keep repeating this Inhale, count, exhale.

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Ideally, start with, oh, about five minutes at a time. Honestly, that's really all you need to. So here we are talking about building that habit of relaxation into our lives. Right and honestly, it starts with just a few minutes a day. Honestly, it starts with just a few minutes a day. I mean five minutes, three, maybe four times a week, totally doable, right. Then you can slowly work your way up to, let's say, 20 to 30 minutes a session, no rush. This is all about making it fit into your life, not the other way around. And look deep breathing is powerful on its own, but why stop there? You could pair it with things like mindful meditation or yoga, maybe even a nature walk, if that speaks to you. It's all about creating a whole routine, like giving your mind and body this fully stocked toolkit to handle whatever life throws at you. It's well. It's kind of like cross-training for your stress levels.

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Now let's bring this to real life, because I know stress doesn't just show up when it's convenient. Picture this You're stuck in traffic and someone cuts you off, or maybe that colleague of yours tries to snag credit for your big project. Jeez, it's frustrating, right. But instead of reacting, you take a moment, find a quiet space, if you can, even if it's just your car, and take a few deep, intentional breaths. In that moment you remind yourself I've got I've got control over this. It's amazing how that one habit helps you carry composure into just about any situation. And, honestly, that's the beauty of all this.

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These small, simple tweaks can kind of rewire how we handle stress altogether. These small, simple tweaks can kind of rewire how we handle stress altogether. Whether you're breathing deeply, meditating, taking a walk or all of the above, you're building resilience. You're like practicing calm the same way you'd practice a sport or a skill, and over time it sticks. So why not start today? Pick one moment, just one, where you'll pause, breathe and let go of whatever's making you tense. You might be surprised at what just five minutes can do. And with that, my friends, we wrap up today's episode of Living in Technicolor. Remember your stress doesn't have to run the show. Every deep breath is a step toward a calmer, brighter you. Thanks so much for tuning in and hey, take care of yourselves out there. See you next time. Thank you, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm.